Lower than low.

[ninjadog6]

So last weekend my parents were being really nice and decided to trust me and my older brother the house AND the car for the weekend, and what did I do? F***ed it up. I feel so low. This is what I did...

My parents left Thursday and it went by pretty well, but I decided to throw a party at my house. BIG mistake. When you invite people, people bring people. So Friday night I had a party, along with all the assets that go along with a party. (Girls, alcohol, etc.) Well it started around 10:30 and by 3:00 I was gone. BIG MISTAKE #2. I don't remember alot just bits and pieces. Someone stole 20$ and my brothers Ipod which I have to pay for both. 3 people had to stay the night. One was my best friend so no problem there. One was my friend from school and one was another guy. Well one decided to sleep in my parents ****ing bed! I was so pissed at him. There must have been 30 people in my house throughout the night. Two of the girls that were there got in big trouble by their parents. One of them left their phone at my house but that's later.

The next morning the two guys left and my best friend, me, and my brother had to clean up the house with a hangover. After a couple hours we think we got it all. WRONG! You can never get it all. Remember the phone? Ya my parents found it in their bed which makes it look like she had sex in their bed which she didn't. It was in their bed because I had it in my hand when I went up their and left it their. Well my friend went home and me and my brother used 20$ that my mom left us for pizza and movies. Our parents come home and it's pretty normal. On Sunday morning my parents ask us if anyone was over, I'm such a horrible liar but she says "OK" and leaves. By this point I know somethings wrong. My chores for that day are to mow the lawn. During the party someone threw eggs in the backyard and my mom asks why they are back there. I say that it was me and my friend did it when he spent the night. Her response is "When are you gonna stop lying to me." OMFG i felt lower than dirt because I am. I confess everything and she says that she knew people were over because she saw "Evidence" (Whatever that means) and that she was gonna wait to see if I was gonna come clean or keep lying. She calls my dad over and their first assumption was my older brother had people over but it was my friends I told her which was the truth. I told her their was alcohol, pot, and girls and that my best friend was there.

Let me give you some background info on my best friend...
He comes from a family of 7 kids. His parents are super religious even more so than mine. He's home-schooled and his parents rarely ever let him stay the night. My parents know this and were really upset. My dad more so than my mom. And my dad threatened to call my friends parents and tell them what happened which would totally destroy me friendship with him. He has no cell phone and their parents always answer the phone so I couldn't even talk to him anymore. His parents would hate me. My mom is trying to get him to stop.

My punishment is no electronic devices and no friends for a month (which my birthday happens to lie in) until I give my dad a list of everyone at the party. My mom doesn't agree with that. I'm not gonna get these people in trouble over my **** up. So my dad keeps asking me "You have that list ready?" and I keep telling him "No". He's threatened me with coming to school during my lunch and harassing the people at my lunch table about if they came to my party because I told them that some people that were at the party were at my lunch tables but not all. He asked me later on the way to school "Do you have that list ready?" Again I say no. He then threatened to call the police on me and my brother about drinking in my house saying that he had a confession from me. I know it won't work because the police can't arrest me for that especially if I say that he's lying. I honestly don't know what to do. My mom is extremely disappointed with me, my brother hates me cause he didn't want this party in the first place and his Ipod is gone. My dad hates my guts and I don't know what I'm going to do. I feel like **** and I don't want to talk to any of them. Hopefully my little sister and little brother don't know. I love my parents and now I feel like crap.

I'm not expecting sympathy, I'm not expecting compassion, I just need to tell someone or I might do something I'll regret.

[EliteGi]

Alright mate just carm down. For a start, this should be in the Gen Discussions, there are no flames here.

Your mother, father and brother don't hate you, don't be rediculous. OK, you had plans to throw a party which went pretty wrong, but nothing major. Your house wasn't burned down and your car wasn't stolen so it could be worse. I mean what, there's less than $200 worth of damages, I've made MUCH bigger mistakes in my life. That's what this is, a mistake. Only a couple of months ago I punched a double glazed window through, and the bill for that will be around $250, as well as a permanent scar on my knuckle.

The great things about mistakes is that they make us feel so bad that we don't want to go through it all again. We tend to learn from them. Tell you're parents your sorry, tell them what happened that day but tell your father you accept responsibility for what happened that day, so you will take the punishment and not those who came to your party.

Seriously mate, it's not that much of a big deal. Your parents and brother are angry at you, yes, but they'll forgive you and you'll all move on soon enough. Besides, no electronic equipment could do your mentality a world of good. Go on some bike rides, do some more excercise than you normally do and maybe you can try doing something productive like drawing or gardening or something. The mental rewards are far greater than what you get out of computer gaming.

Take care boyo.

[eLDiablo]

He then threatened to call the police on me and my brother about drinking in my house saying that he had a confession from me.

Worst bluff in existence, he would more likely be the one in trouble for it.

[meteoradreams]

Did you learn a lesson?

BTW, I can't say much else because I actually don't have experience with this.

[Daishi]

I'm just wondering if your older brother is being attacked over it. Not to make you feel any less guilty (hell, it's a good thing you're feeling bad when you did something bad, but isn't he the responsible adult?) If my younger siblings screwed up, (and they're not much younger) I'd be getting a huge chunk of the blame. Judging from my parents, who I estimate are not as strict as yours (mine don't even let me play games anymore) the punishment is the least of your concerns. It's useless to mope about the past, so just try your best to improve your lot from this point on.

I like your cause. As far as I see, the only people who did anything wrong are your brother and you (in that order), and your father certainly doesn't need that information if they understood as much. And honestly, this will not scar your relationship unless you manage to throw another random party before you're outta that house. You can and should tell him anything else he wants to know as he asks for it. If it doesn't improve your lot, it should at least reinforce their undying (trust me on this) belief that you're a good kid.

[El Sol Morado]

This sounds like some typical teenage stuff(by teenage, i mean like 13-16), so if I were you I wouldn't get TOO worked up over. I can't say I have actually had these experiences, because there's no way in hell I'd let a bunch of my friends in my house at the same time. I usually don't like more than 2 over, cause they're dirty as ****, but anyway. Yeah, all this'll likely blow over in time. Course, your parents may not trust you in the house alone for a while.

[NuclearDreams]

I'd have wooped your hide with a garden rake, and then piled all your electronic stuff in the middle of your bedroom floor and lit em on fire while dancing a war jig around it. :p

[Wrecking Crew]

It's all part of growing up so learn from it. The most important advice I can give you is to know the difference between a flame topic and a sob story. This is the latter so thread closed. :D