I need a little advice.

[Wow Your Ugly]

So it's been a couple of months since I broke up with my girlfriend. I was the one who ended things. That being said, I went to an under-18 club last night where I saw her. She was getting really freaky with a bunch of my friends from school, and this really pissed me off. I was pissed at them for doing that and almost jealous in a way. Is this normal? I don't think it should be because I was the one who ended things. Oh well. :\

[eLDiablo]

It's normal.

[Deadeye]

Sure you don't still have feelings for her? Cause if you do, I can understand why you might be a little jealous/peed off. If not, then I'd have to say not overly normal, but understandable :)

[Alpha and Omega]

Yes, definitely normal. I hate my ex-girlfriend, she's just a downright bad person, but I still don't wanna see her with another guy.

[Statalyzer]

Is this normal?

100% normal. No matter who ended it. Heck, my last g/f slept with some dude while we were dating right before I was about to break up with her anyway, and I still felt weird about 2 months later when I saw she had a new b/f.

[Morph]

Grow a pair.

Seriously though it's normal. I still get bugged out when my ex talks about hooking up with friends of mine...though most of that is because said friend is my old best friends younger brother and my girlfriend is graduating college before he's graduating high school. Oops!!

[Toxic10x]

I'll jump on the "normal" train here. There are ALWAYS lingering feelings and emotions- I suppose they're mostly fueled by the fact that you did, at one time, care about this person. It's hard for your emotional mind to let go of that even after your rational mind has moved on.

[Statalyzer]

Also, maybe you do still care. Stopping dating someone doesn't have to mean you don't care about that person any more.

[NuclearDreams]

I could care less about my ex-girlfriend...never could keep her chasity belt locked when she was ovulating. She ran around like a rabid dog in heat, chewing on every bone..er..that wasn't quick enough to run away.

Nothing like 15 years of marriage to help me forget.

[SgtRicko]

I could care less about my ex-girlfriend...never could keep her chasity belt locked when she was ovulating. She ran around like a rabid dog in heat, chewing on every bone..er..that wasn't quick enough to run away.

Got her number?J_t Giggity!!!:p

[Chuckie]

Screw her, you got the odds in your favor. Treat her like a blow up doll then skate.

[ItalianPenguin]

It'a normal...but dude, what did you expect her to do? Stay at home and think about how much she misses you?

[kwark]

Normal.... I broke up with my girlfirend last year.... 6 weeks later we were back together..... yeah, I'm a wuss :p

[Yorkie]

Yep have to follow suit and say even from a female point of view it is perfectly normal to feel that way.

Oh and Chuckie I am totally shocked and disgusted!!!








:p

[Chuckie]

Just "shocked and disgusted"? Damn, I'm getten old :D

[ninjadog6]

Dude, I'm pretty sure you have cancer.

[Chuckie]

Not funny.

[ninjadog6]

Not funny.

Aw lighten up a bit there Chuckles! :p

[YuriRuler90]

Pretty normal. I still hate to see my ex-girlfriend with other guys, although anyone here can find the thread in which I was cursing and bawling over her with a nice long explanation.

[Alpha and Omega]

I don't mind as much at the moment. My ex's current boyfriend is a singer in some screamo band, and I happened to be visiting her mom when they were practicing.
I walked in, totally showed the guy and his guitar player up, gave the band a few pointers, and left. Apparently, he didn't know who I was until I was gone.

[SgtRicko]

I don't mind as much at the moment. My ex's current boyfriend is a singer in some screamo band, and I happened to be visiting her mom when they were practicing.
I walked in, totally showed the guy and his guitar player up, gave the band a few pointers, and left. Apparently, he didn't know who I was until I was gone.

You, sir, have just defined the very meaning of ownage.:cool:

[Statalyzer]

I don't mind as much at the moment. My ex's current boyfriend is a singer in some screamo band, and I happened to be visiting her mom when they were practicing.
I walked in, totally showed the guy and his guitar player up, gave the band a few pointers, and left. Apparently, he didn't know who I was until I was gone.

Awesome. No matter what she told him afterward, 10 to 1 he feels really jealous now.

[Alpha and Omega]

Lol, even funnier.
I started to teach them a song that I wrote about her, that basically calls her a whore and an evil controlling bitch (she wasn't a whore, but she was very whiney). I've never felt so good about being a jerk before in my life.

There's my advice to you WYU, if you don't wanna feel weird around her, pretend to hate her. Tell yourself she was a bad person, that she didn't deserve you, eventually you'll stop feeling sorry for yourself and feel sorry for her instead. Not too much though, but just enough to take out your aggression.

[Statalyzer]

I don't see in point in trying to get over someone you used to like by intentionally disliking them.

[Alpha and Omega]

When you have feelings for someone you tend to put them on a pedastal. Pretending not to like them will at least get you to knock them down an emotional notch, so you won't miss them as much.

[Map4U]

I don't see in point in trying to get over someone you used to like by intentionally disliking them.

Oh, how pathetic, your just a misguided adolecent, Suffering with the fact that your gay?

P.S. My quoting getting any better? lol

Come out the closet.

[Chuckie]

You just burned a bridge Sparky, I do believe your fixing to get Ass Raped.

[Derek]

Oh, how pathetic, your just a misguided adolecent, Suffering with the fact that your gay?

P.S. My quoting getting any better? lol

Come out the closet.
And who the **** might you be? :rockbrow:

[Statalyzer]

Come out the closet.

You're that desperate for a date?

[GeneralsDaughter]

When you have feelings for someone you tend to put them on a pedastal. Pretending not to like them will at least get you to knock them down an emotional notch, so you won't miss them as much.

Hatred isn't really healthy to be walking around with. Better to not give a ****. More specifically, realize that she's just a girl, you still have feelings for her, she may be hotter/smarter than the others, but she's still just a person.

Just try to stay active, man. Its when you're bored and alone that those feelings come up and bite you.

[Alpha and Omega]

Hatred isn't really healthy to be walking around with. Better to not give a ****.

That's more or less what I meant, not HATRED, but a strong sense of not caring.